makes you pensive..

School has started. 36 hours/week @ work and 6 classes at school will equate to a lot of studying, a lot of money, and no sleep,rest, or social life (lol). Expect my posts to be pretty bland this semester. I apologize in advance. Anyways, this is a link to one of the more interesting articles I've come across lately. Don't ask me how cuz I don't even know but it's pretty good. (I'm bored a lot at work)
http://www.aish.com/d/w/48955756.html
It's about how people pick the wrong person to marry and what the usual 10 mistakes are. Some are common sense but are stated in a way that really makes you think. I know this did:

To evaluate whether you have a deeper emotional connection or not, ask: "Do I respect and admire this person?"
This does not mean, "Am I impressed by this person?" We are impressed by a Mercedes. We do not respect someone because they own a Mercedes. You should be impressed by qualities of creativity, loyalty, determination, etc.

It's directly from the article and really made me think. I'm normally very pensive on this issue anyways, given my personal experience. That and the fact that I'm aware that this is probably the biggest decision you'll make in life.  You may say it's stupid but maybe it's worth a look? 


'til next time, stay classy!♥